So I know I’m preaching this to the choir, but I hate how the good guys never get recognition. It’s always the guy who “hooked up with the hottest girl” or something to that extent…
How about the guy who told the severely self-conscious girl that she looked absolutely beautiful. Or the guy who wiped away the tears of a girl who’s crappy boyfriend just broke up with her for the third time. What about the guy that’s in love with a girl not because she is “hot” or “sexy” but because he believes her to be one of the most stunningly beautiful women inside and out. What about the guy who is sick and tired but listens to a friend in need regardless of his current physical state. What about the guy who volunteers his time to help others in need instead of focusing on his own needs. Or the guy who is passionately in love with God.
I could go on and on. These Men don’t get recognition. I mean think about it. When a girl does something good everyone hears about it because it is expected of her and people want to praise her for it. That’s why girls get the better rep, you hear about it more. But there are still these wonderful men that rarely if ever gets praised. This ERKS me!!! These are the type of men that we need to hold up on a pedestal. These are the men who women should be lining up to date.
Ladies, how many times have we complained about there not being enough good men out there but the second a good guy shows interest in us we turn him down… Your opportunity was a knockin.. Don’t get me wrong I’ve been in that exact boat. We need to praise these men. We need to encourage them. These are the men you should be dating. These are the men you should be marrying. Because these men will put you first and they will love you selflessly.
Alright I’ll step down from my soap box now.
