Lately I’ve been on this kick of searching the internet for qoutations to use on my status on facebook. I don’t know why I do this when I could simply just put JC is going to work or Jc is home.. and leave it at that. But why do that when I can put something that everyone can read and think about themselves.. So I was looking for a qoutation to put up on my status and I looked through some of the Beatles Lyrics because the Beatles knew what they were talking about obviously.. They are the BEATLES!!! Well I found this song called Don’t ever change and read the lyrics because most of the time when I’m listening to the Beatles I don’t listen to every last wor d and annalyze.. I just sing it..

This song Don’t ever Change really sunk in.. He goes on to talk about how his girl and how all these other girls dress to impress and she just wears jeans and acts like she wants to.. He talks about how for this reason he loves her.. He loves everything about her and wouldn’t have her any other way.. Thats when I thought thats how every relationship should be. If someone truley loves their significant other all of that person’s faults will be insignificant.Thats when you know you’ve found the one. When everything the other person does seems special and amazing and you wouldn’t have it any other way.

Which brought me to another realization. Our society has major standards for girls. If your not a size 1 or 2 and your breast arent seeping out of your shirt, your not good enough. But the Beatles put such a special standard on their girl. She can be a tom boy and dress like a boy and it doesn’t matter because they know that all that matters to them is how this girl makes them feel and how amazing her personality is. Maybe if everyone ignored the standard that the society put out there their relationships would last longer. Maybe if people could look past the body and the looks and look at the persons personality they could connect on a deeper level.

Ok so before people go out their thinking I’m some crazy feminist.. I’m NOT!! LOL.. I’m actually very far from it.. I love it when guys hold the door open for me and surprise me and pay for me.. thats just how it works and their should be no secound guessing who’s paying the check.. LOL but I do feel like this concept works both ways.. girls shouldn’t go out with someone just because they are cute or because they have money.. They should go out with them because this person makes them feel like no one else has ever made them feel in their whole entire life. I realized this after my first boyfriend I told the boy I would go out with him after knowin him for 2 days.. CRAZY I know. But give me a brake I was 14 years old, I could have cared less about feelings and BLAH BLAH BLAH.. he had a Motorcycle he let me ride on the back of!!!!! LOL.. After this huge mistake I have always made sure I knew the person before I dated them.. I didn’t realize how cute a guy I liked was untill after I connected with him on a personal level and thats how it should be..

I’m crazy I know.. “So please dont ever change no don’t you ever change”
This is how I will live for the rest of my life.. Personality will always come first and the minute I feel liek some one is trying to change who I am… I’m outie.. Love me or hate.. take me as I am!!